What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
How good do you sing and how do you know this?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
What is it like to be the slave in a mistress-slave relationship?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
I have a bad reputation and need help. What should I do?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Can the effects of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) be reversed?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Why do I sweat so much after shower?
Would you read them together?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
How can people balance religious beliefs with seeking professional mental health care?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
39~ What are your love languages?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
Please share Did you stop?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
*** Questions About Me ***
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
The Ice Breaker Questions
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Any that are a turn off?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
How old are you? Male or Female?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
29- How superstitious are you?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
*** Random Questions ***
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
If you win, what will you make them do?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
What is your favorite position? Why?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
52~ What are your hobbies?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Nothing too Serious
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
If yes, what?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Any that are a turn off?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
62~ Have you used adult toys?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Family Relation Age Play
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?